Happy 36th

I just turned 36 a week ago. It was a milestone birthday for me. You see, I’ve now outlived my biological father. He died at 35, and for years, the thought of turning the very age at which he passed was not a welcome one for me. So much so, in fact, I often found myself wishing I could fast forward to my 36^th birthday, so I could just be done with it all. I know this may seem odd to you, but truth be told, we all wrestle with certain oddities that, if left unchecked, can shape our realities. And for years, this was my pet oddity.

Now, let me be clear on something. I am a profound lover of Jesus Christ, and over the years I have learned to trust Him in this area of my life. I have honestly experienced monumental victory over a fear of death that once haunted me. Even so, 35, for me, was always the final battle. And I knew that it would have to be fought. So I just wanted it over and done with.

But now that it is, I am struck with remorse over a life that was not allowed to live in the present, because of its preoccupation with the future. In other words, I spent so much energy wanting time to pass that I didn’t make the most of the time that I had. Now that I’m 36, I can hear the clock ticking, and the question that is being asked of me is “what will you do with the time you've been given?”

We’re all going to die. That is inevitable. But how many of us truly live? How many of us really enjoy life? Savor its fragrances, bask in it’s warm hues and rich tones, dance to its rythms? How many of us are lucid enough to recognize the preciousness of the gift of life that we've received? At 36, I am hit with the reality that I only get one go round on the carousel, and I’ve missed too much of the ride. I’ve wasted opportunities, avoided uncomfortable situations, shunned risk and surrounded myself with people and things that make me feel safe. But I’m done with safe. It’s now time to live, and live with intention.

What’s in your heart? What do you want to do with your life? Who do you want to be? What is your dream? What do you want to be said about you when they lay your lifeless body to rest? These are the questions I’m now asking myself, and I encourage you to do the same.

As a follower of Jesus, I know that our dreams were given to us by God Himself. And the greatest act of worship to the God of creation is to chase those dreams down with fearless abandonment.

We each have the opportunity to write our own eulogies, and I’m now in the process of thinking about what I want mine to say.

For those of you who are wondering, yes this is the funny guy’s blog, but it’s been hijacked by a profound thinker. The funny guy will be back in time for the next blog.